


It’s all scary to think about, because nothing shared virtually is risk-free, no matter how careful you are. And the consequences can be dire, potentially resulting in job loss, divorce, identity theft, and long-term reputational damage, all of which is worse if you’re using platforms to engage in any kind of online infidelity (which this guide is not intended to help you do, FYI). Revenge porn (when a partner publicly shares intimate photos or videos meant for their eyes only) and doxing (when private details like your address or workplace are publicly shared online, typically as a form of harrassment) are the biggest threats, say leading sex educators and cybersecurity specialists. While technology has opened up our options like never before, apps and online tools can pose a number of risks. As more folks turn to Zoom, FaceTime, and other video platforms to get to know would-be partners, online sex-which can include sexting, swapping nude photos, and mutual masturbation over video-has become an increasingly common way for people to get close, even when they’re staying apart.

Since the pandemic began, dating apps have exploded in popularity, with companies like Match Group-which owns 60% of the market, including Tinder, Hinge, and OKCupid-reporting major surges in subscriptions and user engagement. Social distancing has shifted many of the things we used to do in-person-working, doctor’s appointments, even celebrating holidays-to virtual settings, and it’s had the same impact on dating.
